The daily blog of October 11
It's a day time of 4PM (GMT +5:30 KOLKATA)completed journey, tired in journey had lunch taken short nap and now decided to write
How to live with confidence!"
Hello friends, welcome to this blog. How can we live with confidence in this post today? I will make a small attempt to explain these changes. So let's get started.
Once an emperor asked his vizier, "Which is the best weapon, tell me?" Vajira replied, "Confidence!"
The emperor did not like this. He decided to test the vizier. After a few days, the emperor ordered a slaughtered elephant to be released to the vizier while it was unarmed.
Vajira saw the elephant coming and picked up a dead man lying on the road with his dogs. His legs turned around and threw him on the elephant. While barking, the dogs attacked the trunk of the elephant. His paws and paws bite the elephant. So the elephant ran in the opposite direction so much that even the mahout riding on it got scared for a moment. When the emperor came to know about this, he was convinced by the answer of the vizier. If the vizier did not have self-confidence, he would not have been able to face the crisis with courage. With the power of self-confidence, even the seemingly impossible things become possible. David, a young warrior from Israel, defeated Golidhan, a mighty warrior from Palestine, by stoning him. He had no other weapon. But the weapon of arms was confidence. When self-confidence is awakened, then all the latent powers in man are awakened. "The word impossible is found only in the dictionaries of fools." These words of Napoleon are symbols of confidence.
Confidence is a great power. Extraordinary success can be achieved by his power. Guns are not the only thing to fight. So the brains and wrists are fighting behind them. Without self-confidence all physical and mental efforts become fruitless. Confidence is the biggest principle of achievement. Self-reliance, self-confidence and self-esteem are the three qualities that mean empowerment!
He who loses his confidence loses everything. The history of this country is the history of a handful of self-confident people. You may believe in 33 crore gods, but if you do not believe in yourself, you will never be able to attain liberation. Swami Vivekananda always appealed to the youth and said, "If I get a hundred confident youth, I will transform this country." Like Alibaba's 'Khul Ja Simsim', confidence is a word of mouth, it opens the cave of self-growth and puts a wealth of prosperity, success and leadership honor before us.
Confidence is not arrogance or hollowness. Confidence is unwavering belief in oneself.
Once a terrible storm arose in the sea. The ship started sinking. All the sailors were scared. He lost patience. Caesar was in the same boat. He said, "Don't be afraid. Caesar and his future are in your ship, and his future is bright!". Confidence is the pride of the heart, the pride of success. Confidence comes from your faith in your work and fidelity to the demands of your trust. Lack of confidence usually arises for three reasons.
1) Lack of information :- In the present age of science, there is an explosion of information. New technologies are emerging. Their study and experience is essential for self-confidence.
2) Lack of recognition or acceptance:- Every human being needs some or the other appreciation for his/her efforts. Two words of praise are in order. Parents, teachers and society can build trust in youth through sincere praise and affectionate encouragement. If we learn to evaluate our own performance, if we can see our shortcomings and our strengths, we will be able to hold two birds of confidence and inner satisfaction in the same valve, and then no need for approval. There will be others.
3) Unfamiliar environment :- It is natural to lose confidence due to new person, new situation, new responsibility. The solution is to gain knowledge gradually. At first it is intimidating to give a speech, but with habit and practice it subsides. Those who can't even speak two words eventually become speakers of the bar.
The power of self-confidence has not been given to us by psychologists or hypnotists or anyone else. It is in us. Confidence leads to success. The rest are just excuses. Abraham Lincoln lost 35 elections before becoming President of the United States. But his confidence did not waver.
When Columbus went out in search of America, all his companions started talking about returning on time. However, Kolbus's confidence did not waver. So he became immortal in history.
Most of the people are not aware of this power. That's why they are not able to move forward in life. Confidence is the source of divine power, confidence is the mother of progress. Socrates, Jesus Christ, Shankaracharya, Dnyaneshwar digested all criticism, slander and oppression and gave the nectar of welfare to mankind. They were all sons of faith. In a survey of 600 students, students asked "What was their biggest problem? When asked this question, 450 students answered""Lack of self-confidence" Is.
For confidence we must first accept ourselves. This self-love should not be selfish or vain. Even though we know our friend's faults, we should respect ourselves as we are tolerant towards him. Introspection or self-discovery is a motivator and guide to self-confidence. Partnership Cooperation, charity, prayer are the four pillars of faith. Full knowledge The application of knowledge, self-exploration and the belief in one's own superiority that naturally arises from this is self-confidence!
Belief along these lines is not always proven. It has to be awakened by self-improvement. That's why Swami Vivekananda used to say - "Uttishta, awake, prapyavarnibodhat!"
Hope you enjoyed The daily blog of October 11 if not then correct me in comment box.
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